Need Help !

=D//R= Riggs · 11-28-2003

Guys how would you all react and what action would be taking against a disrespectful clan member who insist on bashing other members skills ?? i have a slight prob in are clan and im getting upset i really dont want to have to dismiss him only cause he is a great player but all this bashing and disrespect has to stop.. any feedback would be greatly appericated

thanks
Riggs

[SS]SportoFu · 11-28-2003

I would say it depends on whether your clan is primarily looking for good players, or if you are looking for a tight knit clan that gets along like brothers, and respects one another regardless of their skill. Once you figure that out, I'm sure you'll know how to handle it.
Just my opinion.

[SS]Raiden · 11-28-2003

I have to agree with Sporto, It all depends on what you want. As for us we take respect and brotherhood over any one persons skills any day of the week.
So it all comes to what you want and how you want to be seen.
Just my thoughts!!!

[SS]Steve-O · 11-28-2003

There are plenty of good fish in the sea, DO NOT ALLOW some idiots skills get in the way. Tell him to smarten up or toss him to the curve. Trust me there are no one man teams out there. I ma sure you have relizedc that a shitty(not good at socom) individual that plays with a team is better then an AMZAZING guy who does not.

Badger · 11-28-2003

I have to agree with the posts above me. I know for a fact that the Wolfhounds do not tolerate any disrespect made towards another clan member OR our allies. The person's skill level is irrelavent. I would give him a warning and if he doesn't change give him his walking papers. Your clan is somewhat of a new clan and this could be one of those moments where you would set a precident for all of you current and future members to follow. Team play wins over individual play in this game.

Weeper · 11-28-2003

I agree with all of the above responses.

Again ... talk with the individual first ... then see how they respond and if this solves the problem. Many times this is all that is needed.

If not, I would say that the overall well being of the group as a whole should prevail over the individual. I have seen several members leave a clan before over one individual.

But always TALK to the individual FIRST!

=D//R= Riggs · 11-28-2003

Thanks guys im on the same page as you all..there was some feedback posts from the problem sorce and some of my guys stepped up to the challenge for me and Sky.. the posts from this person are totally uncalled for and Sky has decided to lower in rank first warning if it still happens he will get his walking papers and ill do my best to lets each and everyone are =D//R='s allies and good friend clans who this person is so he wont mess with another clan again thanks for all the feedback

[SS]Steve-O · 11-28-2003

Hey Riggs what does that "SS" stand for on your tag. Also what does the OTHER "SS" and "AE" tag stand for?

=D//R= Riggs · 11-28-2003

The first SS is im a member of =D//R= Secret Service (there is only 3 of us Riggs , Skyhawk , Mullet ) the second SS ribbon is from the war we plyed against you when we beat ya and the ribbon is from when we beat them

11-29-2003

Joke him if he cant take a F^&*K. Use your heart and let your conscience guide you LOL.

[SS]Rator · 11-29-2003

Damn, did we recruit you Riggs? Looks like it from your sig. Kind of a bit disrespectful that you have a tag on your sig saying that you beat us dontcha think?

About your situation with the disrespectful member, I would put him in his place right away. No one in the SS busts on anyones skills, nor do we roster for matches based on skill. Someone like that would never have made it into the SS in the first place. And if they did, they would never have dropped their "[r]". Ban him from practices and matches for a couple of weeks and see how he likes that.

=D//R= Riggs · 11-30-2003

no disrespect intnded Rator.. We get ribbons for all war we play in that we win.. it not ment to be in any sort of disrespect you the seasnipers nor the American Eagles .. as far as are lil prob we had Sky and the rest of are clan decided to drop him from are roster.. If we dont take a stand now who is to say in future someone else will try to pull this again and say but so and so didnt get in trouble ..

again thanks guys for all your input

[SS]Snakebite · 11-30-2003

Hey!! Don't we get a ribbon for beating D//R like 3 times before they beat us?? hehe ..... joking :D

[SS]ProXimo · 12-01-2003

We can't do things like that Snake. Our Sigs will not fit in the computer screen if we posted a ribbon for all matches won. LOL.

I do think it's dis-respectful to do it anyway and it's probably why [SS] does not do that.

[SS]Arkangel · 12-01-2003

I agree with Prox.

11-28-2003	#1
=D//R= Riggs Ensign Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 10	Need Help ! Guys how would you all react and what action would be taking against a disrespectful clan member who insist on bashing other members skills ?? i have a slight prob in are clan and im getting upset i really dont want to have to dismiss him only cause he is a great player but all this bashing and disrespect has to stop.. any feedback would be greatly appericated thanks Riggs Secret Service IN LOVING MEMORY OF JASON JR. AUG 26,2003 - SEPT 16,2003

11-28-2003	#3
[SS]Raiden 2 Words for ya " SUCK IT" Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: get the fuck away Posts: 1,767	I have to agree with Sporto, It all depends on what you want. As for us we take respect and brotherhood over any one persons skills any day of the week. So it all comes to what you want and how you want to be seen. Just my thoughts!!! --------------- LICK MY PASTE!!!!! -------------

11-28-2003	#5
Badger Commander Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Alberta,Canada Posts: 162	I have to agree with the posts above me. I know for a fact that the Wolfhounds do not tolerate any disrespect made towards another clan member OR our allies. The person's skill level is irrelavent. I would give him a warning and if he doesn't change give him his walking papers. Your clan is somewhat of a new clan and this could be one of those moments where you would set a precident for all of you current and future members to follow. Team play wins over individual play in this game. Just a guy...

11-28-2003	#7
=D//R= Riggs Ensign Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 10	Thanks guys im on the same page as you all..there was some feedback posts from the problem sorce and some of my guys stepped up to the challenge for me and Sky.. the posts from this person are totally uncalled for and Sky has decided to lower in rank first warning if it still happens he will get his walking papers and ill do my best to lets each and everyone are =D//R='s allies and good friend clans who this person is so he wont mess with another clan again thanks for all the feedback Secret Service IN LOVING MEMORY OF JASON JR. AUG 26,2003 - SEPT 16,2003

11-28-2003	#9
=D//R= Riggs Ensign Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 10	The first SS is im a member of =D//R= Secret Service (there is only 3 of us Riggs , Skyhawk , Mullet ) the second SS ribbon is from the war we plyed against you when we beat ya and the ribbon is from when we beat them Secret Service IN LOVING MEMORY OF JASON JR. AUG 26,2003 - SEPT 16,2003

11-28-2003	#2
[SS]SportoFu Canadian Chuck Norris Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: SK. Canada Posts: 4,731	I would say it depends on whether your clan is primarily looking for good players, or if you are looking for a tight knit clan that gets along like brothers, and respects one another regardless of their skill. Once you figure that out, I'm sure you'll know how to handle it. Just my opinion.

11-28-2003	#4
[SS]Steve-O Presidente Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: third house from the corner Posts: 3,100	There are plenty of good fish in the sea, DO NOT ALLOW some idiots skills get in the way. Tell him to smarten up or toss him to the curve. Trust me there are no one man teams out there. I ma sure you have relizedc that a shitty(not good at socom) individual that plays with a team is better then an AMZAZING guy who does not.

11-28-2003	#6
Weeper Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 1,286	I agree with all of the above responses. Again ... talk with the individual first ... then see how they respond and if this solves the problem. Many times this is all that is needed. If not, I would say that the overall well being of the group as a whole should prevail over the individual. I have seen several members leave a clan before over one individual. But always TALK to the individual FIRST!

11-29-2003	#10
[SS]Dr.Who Posts: n/a	Joke him if he cant take a F^&*K. Use your heart and let your conscience guide you LOL.

11-29-2003	#11
[SS]Rator Sea Snipers® Owner/Leader Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: US Posts: 24,237	Damn, did we recruit you Riggs? Looks like it from your sig. Kind of a bit disrespectful that you have a tag on your sig saying that you beat us dontcha think? About your situation with the disrespectful member, I would put him in his place right away. No one in the SS busts on anyones skills, nor do we roster for matches based on skill. Someone like that would never have made it into the SS in the first place. And if they did, they would never have dropped their "[r]". Ban him from practices and matches for a couple of weeks and see how he likes that. I'm gonna ask you questions, and every time you don't give me answers, I'm gonna cut something off. And I promise you... they will be things you will miss!

11-30-2003	#12
=D//R= Riggs Ensign Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 10	no disrespect intnded Rator.. We get ribbons for all war we play in that we win.. it not ment to be in any sort of disrespect you the seasnipers nor the American Eagles .. as far as are lil prob we had Sky and the rest of are clan decided to drop him from are roster.. If we dont take a stand now who is to say in future someone else will try to pull this again and say but so and so didnt get in trouble .. again thanks guys for all your input Secret Service IN LOVING MEMORY OF JASON JR. AUG 26,2003 - SEPT 16,2003

11-30-2003	#13
[SS]Snakebite Thats Mr Sarcastic to you Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Right behind you Posts: 6,451	Hey!! Don't we get a ribbon for beating D//R like 3 times before they beat us?? hehe ..... joking :D

12-01-2003	#14
[SS]ProXimo Proximo Studios Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Sachse, TX Posts: 1,996	We can't do things like that Snake. Our Sigs will not fit in the computer screen if we posted a ribbon for all matches won. LOL. I do think it's dis-respectful to do it anyway and it's probably why [SS] does not do that.

12-01-2003	#15
[SS]Arkangel angermeans Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: long island Posts: 458	I agree with Prox. Peaceful confrontation meet War Machine. "You tremble, carcass? You would tremble even more if you knew where I am going to take you" - Vicomte de Turenne "... the Earth hath skin, and the skin hath diseases. One of these... is called man" - Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche "Uproar east - strike west" - Sheng Tung, Chi Hsi "Remind the gods of my name. I believe there is one seat left for me" - In Flames

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